Vietnamese coffee shop girls love thugs and drug dealers. That’s just a fact of life. Remember, that these girls are young - generally between 17-23 years old. The only guys that can offer them an above average lifestyle for that age group are guys that hustle and make money on the side outside of school. A coffee shop girl knows she’s hot so she’s not going to settle for a boy her age that’s flipping burgers at McDonald’s, right? So if you’re a young buck that’s got some hustle bringing in enough money to afford a nice car and buy bottles at the club, you have a chance at scoring a coffee shop girl; that is, if she doesn’t have a man already. These girls were hot bitches in school before they started working at the coffee shop so odds are they have a boyfriend from school…and odds are he’s a thug/drug dealer. As an added bonus to the extra money she gets from dating this type of guy, it makes her cool and popular with her friends/classmates.
However, as they eventually mature, coffee shop girls get fed up with their thug boyfriends for various reasons: the guys are in and out of lock up, they don’t have stable careers, they mistreat the girls, or they are generally immature. In other words, the girls start to look for long term potential in a man. If the coffee shop girl is on the upper end of the age spectrum (e.g. 22+ years old), she is out of school and might be looking for an older guy with the means to give her different, more mature experiences in life. Life as a Vietnamese coffee shop girl is a slog, especially if she has been doing it for awhile. Walking around in stripper heels for 8 hours a day, 6 days a week, and breathing in cigarette smoke can wear a girl down. The alcohol and clubbing at night gets old, too. If you’re a young looking 30-something year old dude with a stable career, you have a good chance at scoring with a coffee shop girl that’s at this stage in her life. I would avoid the ones with babies though because the baby daddy’s are probably those aforementioned thug types and you don’t want to deal with that drama. Those girls have too many issues and there’s plenty of other girls to choose from.